I’m a big girl.
I appreciate all the “butt’er in’ers” but sometimes it makes me crazy. Especially now that I’m a big girl, and I think I’ve matured to the point of where I can very well figure most things out for myself.
I am still learning and I know I will always be learning, so during those inquisitive times I ask for help, I ask questions and I find out what I need to know.
I do suggest however that if you too are a “butt’er in’er” that you think twice about how imperative your advice is. Because most likely that advice is probably more of a stresser then an aid.
Or maybe…
Its me…maybe I share too much and somehow inadvertantly ask for this unwanted butting in. I do know however that “holding in” in the past has done nothing to serve me, so a “discloser” is just who I’ve become.
*sigh*